Sunday, August 22, 2004
~ What's the deal with my family?? ~
10:07:00 pm
Went for a wedding reception at Jurong today... It was my 2nd cousin's wedding
(my mum's cousin's son)... Went there with my family, my 2nd aunt and her husband, my 3rd aunt's family; and 4th uncle's family... Waited at Chinese Garden MRT station at 3pm... Went there together... Upon reaching there, the only ones who welcomed us was my 1st aunt and her husband
(well, my aunt's husband and the groom's father are siblings)... The groom's mother didn't even bother...
*Duh!*... Well, basically, I never liked the family... And I mean, the WHOLE family as in my mum's cousins, with the exception of my 1st aunt's husband... All are SNOBBISH people... Well, almost all... Hee... Why I disliked them so much was bcuz of the way they treated my mum and her sisters... Well, my mum and aunts lost their mum
(my late grandmother) at a very young age... As a result, they somehow 'insulted' and looked down on my mum and aunts... Even though the one who looked after them was their aunt
(my grandaunt, my late grandmother's elder sister)... Till this day, sometimes, they still look down upon my family and my aunt's family... And if possible, keep wanting to find fault in us... That's why my mum keeps bugging me to strive for the best and don't let these people look down on us... Cuz she's been there and she doesn't want the same to happen to her children... Only in recent years, they stopped being TOO snobbish especially after my brother got into the army and me into poly in the nursing course... So you see, this is why I disliked that bunch of people so much...
Anyway, what's the deal with those people? Why so 'kaypoh' whether my sis is getting married or not?
*Shhsh*... When the groom's mother asked my sis when's her turn to get married, my sis just answered,
"Well, my boyfriend's overseas so my mum also dunno."... I know my sis is just joking and she doesn't like people to bug and pressurise her with this issue... But what's the deal with that woman? She told my mum,
"Your daughter is so snobbish."... HELLO?? Can you take a look in the mirror first before you say others??
*Arggh... Just hate them so much*... Sometimes, it really seems as though they are standing by the sidelines, waiting for either one of our families to fall apart... And they will be clapping their hands in happiness...
*Damn... I really can't stand them*... Enough about my family dispute
(it's only between the elders, why did I drag it along?)...
Went to IMM after that while my uncle's family went to my grandmum's house in Yishun
(somewhere near my house too)... When my mum and aunts didn't want to go, he gave that kind of face... Something like a displeasured face...
*It's another family dispute... Not gonna talk bout it*...
While walking in Giant with my sis, wanting to get bread and some snacks, we saw our 5th uncle and his new wife, her sons and their new son
(I'll let you decide what I'm trying to say here)...
*Another family dispute again*... The moment I saw my uncle, I was like 'Oh shit'... Well, but what to do... He's my elder and I still have to respect him...
What's the deal with family disputes man?
*Sigh*...
written, NaDiaH eRNiYaNTi
